Reply To: Learning to set boundaries without guilt

[DeepikaH <div class="bbp-author-role">Participant</div> February 23, 2026 at 7:56 am Post count: 69]

Hi Christianah, thank you for sharing this — it’s not an easy thing to say out loud.

Fertility and future planning can feel so much heavier than people realise, especially when it seems like others are moving forward with certainty. That comparison can quietly add pressure, even when no one intends it.

I haven’t walked your exact path, but I just want to say you’re not alone in feeling this way. It’s okay to take your time, ask questions, and move at a pace that feels right for you.