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Yes, it is not a quick fix situation at all.
It’s true that when she knows others can see what’s happening, this lightens the load a little – being seen, being heard, brings some light to the darkness.
But ultimately all abusers need to face punishment. Never let them get away with it.
Although I have before seen men change their behaviour, based on the fact they are being watched.
It works at times; and oftentimes we find that he, too, was victim to some or other abuse and chose abuse as retaliation. So, there are times when the abuser needs help. But that’s only for those who choose to ‘repent’, for lack of a better term. A man who is known for doing ‘bad things’ and will continue to do bad things must be caught and put behind bars.
To keep everyone safe!
